Masturbation Therapy

A Follower Asks:

Some advice, please? I have had my young son on a very strict supervised masturbation and milking regimen for a couple of years now, assisted by the boy’s aunt (my sister) as well, but frequently of late the boy has started reacting to prolonged edging sessions by bursting into a fit of tears.

Should this worry us? When this happens, should we relent and allow him to orgasm sooner than we had planned?

Thanks for your help.

- A Concerned Mother

Thank You For Your Question.

First please let me apologize for taking so long to respond .. :)  Sorry… :)   I’ve bee so busy recently helping a colleague of mine, she has two young boys, that, well let’s just say they are quite ‘prolific’ and need lot’s of 'supervision’, if you know what I mean (wink wink).  

Now, regarding you question…  You seem to be having trouble with your boy’s ejaculation control training and practice, or 'edging’ as you put it, correct?    He now seems to disagree with this, correct?   Some further information would be helpful for me in providing the best solution to your particular issue, but I will address this as best I can.   

Now you indicated that, as of late, your son has been responding to his regular masturbation edging training / practice with fits of tears.  

OK, The first thing I need to address here is this: What could be the cause of such a response.   Could it be physical in nature?  That is, is it at all possible that the boy could be experiencing any physical pain for any reason?  Are there any indications or signs of injury or illness?    And have you asked him why he does this?  What does he say the reason for this is?    

If this issue is indeed physical in nature, you should discontinue the masturbation edging practice and seek professional medical attention right away.   Once this is resolved then go ahead and resume practice.

Also, it would be helpful to know exactly how are you conducting your edging practice?  Because, If the issue is physical in nature then could your technique(s) or methods be the source of the problem?  

We just want to rule out the possibility you are experiencing this issue due to injury or illness the boy may be suffering from.  

OK, Now having said all that… :)   Let us now address the other likely and obvious possibility here…  

Let’s now assume that the issue here is not physical in nature at all, but rather he just does not like the ejaculation control training because he (really) wants to experience and feel that ejaculation right away, in other words, when he wants to instead of when he’s allowed to.  

It would be very helpful to know just what exactly it is that he dislikes about it, that information could be very useful (evil grin).   

Now to address your question:  ’… should we relent and allow him to orgasm sooner than we had planned?’   

Well… in a word…  NO!   In two words, HELL NO!  …. giggles

So, I can only assume you are wondering: 'Well, What (hell) should I do about it then, huh DOC.?’  

Well, that depends… What I mean is, there is no 'single’ cur-all solution when it comes to solving this kind of issue.  Rather it’s a combination of things that needs to be done to resolve this.  

Now, more often than not, this issue is simply a case of 'i wanna ejaculate NOW (gawddammit)! waaaaa waaaa waaaaa…’.   When I encounter this sort of thing myself, my first (and favorite) step is ALWAYS, and I mean ALWAYS, the Penis Ruler!    Oh YEEEHHH-EHHHH-EEESSSS, the Penis Ruler, for those that don’t know, is simply an old-fashioned type, thick (the thicker the better), wooden ruler.   A few good hard strikes on A boys fully erect penis can work wonders!      

However, there is more to it than simply administering discipline with Penis Ruler.     The discipline important as it is, is only part of the solution here.   The trick is to make him 'want’ to have his masturbation therapy and training.   Here are some things I find work well when addressing this type of issue: (note: I have found that this type of approach works well when resolving other issues as well)

Question the boy.   Try and find out what it is exactly he dislikes and why.   And, you will probably learn some things that are equally important, for instance: what he does like.    Obviously any and all of this information can be very useful and worth the efforts to obtain it.   Also, keep in mind: One has to be clever and tactful when doing this so be patient and use your imagination!  Now some of these things are givens, that is, you probably don’t need to ask, just do :)  but ask anyways, it helps to build up a sense of trust and openness. 

Remember: Who is In Charge Here?  You Are!  Rather, the Women In Authority are.    Don’t be afraid to assert your authority.   Don’t hesitate to 'take the ruler to it’, the Penis Ruler that is (evil grin).    Remind the boy that it is the Women In Authority who are to decide if and when he is allowed to masturbate,  if and when he is allowed to ejaculate and if and when he is to be milked.  No EXCEPTIONS!    

Try doing some things to 'enhance’ the training session, remember you want to him 'want’ to do this.    This is a good opportunity to make use of information obtained from your questioning.    Try and include some of those things you know of, or at least think that, he likes.  

Be understanding, kind, sympathetic… In A strict Feminine sort of way :)  What I mean is:  It is possible to maintain strict authority and still be a kind, loving, understanding Woman sympathetic to the boys masturbation needs.   EVIL GRIN!   heheheh